I am a simple girl who tries to simplify my life to the mini-mum. I do however enjoy mix and match when it comes to clothes, home decoration and design weddings. Throughout the years, I really learn not to deal with dramatic people. Some people carries drama with them not by purpose but they just let drama follow them, affect them and join them. I tried not that bothering me. I once told a friend that "it's their drama until it affect you then it becomes your drama." He was very pleased with my saying.
I was young once (not that I wasn't young anymore) but I was once very into creating drama. I make things out of proportion to be angry, upset or even depress. Then, I realize life is way too short to be making things too big of a deal. No one is gonna care if you are angry, upset or even depress for those unnecessary incidents. Then why hold grudges when no one gives a damn? When you grow older and wiser, you will really learn to let go and move on. I know I sounded sentimental but really I am not. There are alot of things and ppl that need me to focus on.
I am happy with what I am. I have a lot of acquaintances that I dont remember that I have that long of conversations with. I have a lot of friends that I dont keep up nor do they keep up with each other's lives. I have a lot of good friends that I dearly miss and wish I can see them more around the world. I have few that I hang out when I am not working. I have fewer that I discuss and update my personal life. When I look at my speed dial, 1) Mom 2) Dad 3) Office 4) Baby 5) My assistant 6)~8)My Colleagues 9) My housekeeper. My social circle is very SIMPLE. I know who my real friends are!
I am content with my life cause my main focus is my work, my career, my projects and my clients. I am happy to surround me who thinks I am important to them. My life is simple and....
Simplicity is happiness!
I'd been hanging out with my adorable and hot model friends lately. Beautiful E introduced this book to me. It's called "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene. I had the honour to take peak in their apt last Saturday when I was waiting for them to get ready.
First of all, this book is too much content to begin reading and you have to study it. Like you need to really take the time and learn the skills to learn this type of Art. I have to say I give up by the hmmmm fourth page. Yes, it is awfully clever but at the same time I think this type of thing you will need the talent to know how to 1) flirt 2) seduce 3) manipulate.
We all need security to go on with a relationship and security comes from trust. At least that's how my intakes are. At this moment, I am with someone I am absolutely have no control of. Most of the time, girls fell and they know exactly what they got themselves into. Dont expect to change someone, thats just stupid. But do trust yourself. Trust you have the ability to heal when you get hurt, trust your choice, trust you know yourself better than anyone in this world that you know how to protect yourself.
Daddy always teach his little girl to find someone who loves you more than you love him. Why? That way its simply easier and less effort. Your heart wont be too damaged if he happens to break it. I wonder if daddy marries someone who loves him more than he loves her? I look at my less than perfect parents and I can never understand cause underneath the surface, i think daddy marries someone he loves more than she does. Will mom ever find out the secret? I have no answers to it. But then, I know nothing is as it seems. The truth is always hidden.
I believe in hard work pays it off, whether it's business, friendship or relationships. I can only hope you learn how to be a better person each day. Baby, I am not sure if we ever will have our happy ending but I am trying...
Just like the movie " The Great Expectation", I was taught to put an shell to protect myself. Let me peak first then I will come out eventually. All you to do is "be patient", I promise I am worth the wait.
This is what I called an ideal date night...thanks to baby for taking me to this delightful dinner. Food-I've had better ones but good night really requires a good company. I probably wont disclose this kind of intimate talk to you but baby I really thank you for the wonderful night.
I am a simple girl who tries to simplify my life to the mini-mum. I do however enjoy mix and match when it comes to clothes, home decoration and design weddings. Throughout the years, I really learn not to deal with dramatic people. Some people carries drama with them not by purpose but they just let drama follow them, affect them and join them. I tried not that bothering me. I once told a friend that "it's their drama until it affect you then it becomes your drama." He was very pleased with my saying.
